Investing Your Time Wisely

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Your time – more precious than gold

Many of us lead busy lives. We feel like there is so much to do, and consequently it’s easy to believe that there just isn’t enough time for us to do all the things we’d like to do, or need to do. The hard reality is that everybody has the same amount of time—24 hours a day. That’s 1,440 minutes, or 86,400 seconds every day. Some use this time to accomplish great things, while others just drift along and at the end of the day, they haven’t achieved anything except marking another X on their calendar. It’s not necessarily a question of being extremely organized (although that could help), nor is it a question of talent (although that doesn’t hurt, either).

Time is a gift – what will you do with it?

It is, however, important to recognize that time is a gift. For better or for worse, yesterday is a done deal, and none of us are guaranteed tomorrow—all we’ve got available is today. Consequently, we must ask ourselves: What will we do with the time we’ve been allotted? Will we fill our time with worthwhile pursuits, or will we fritter it away? Time is a valuable gift. And how we spend it makes all the difference in the world.

Do we sit down from time to time and ask ourselves if we are spending our time wisely? Whether we spend it wisely or not, it is gone forever. There is no recourse for getting back lost time. Are we spending our time on worthwhile or frivolous things? Will we have regrets at the end of the day, wishing we had done something else? When we reach the end of our lives, however long we have on this earth, will we have left this world a better place, or will we look back and say, “I wish I hadn’t spent so much time on ________”?

Of course, this question hinges on what we mean by “worthwhile.” How do you determine what is “worthwhile”? I believe an excellent way to frame the issue is to ask ourselves the following questions:

What is your treasure?

What is your treasure?

What gives my life meaning?

What do you truly treasure? Think of time as an investment—how do you invest your time? That which gives your life meaning is where you will spend your time, and it is by your time investment that other people will be able to determine what your “treasure” is. Outside of customary obligations (work, school, etc.), you will spend more time with your “treasure” than with anything else. For example, given a choice between spending time with your family and spending time at the golf course, what would you choose? Where is your treasure?

Is my focus inward or outward?

Is your time spent on “me, mine” and other selfish pursuits? Or is it spent in serving others, being a blessing to them, influencing them for the better, having a positive impact on them? Are your actions centered around building yourself up, or edifying others? Do you find plenty of time to veg out in front of the TV, but somehow you can’t set aside any time to help someone else? It doesn’t have to a big, sacrificial task—something simple, like a smile or kind word or even a note of encouragement, can brighten another person’s day.

How often do you take time out for personal growth and development?

How often do you take time out for personal growth and development?

Am I taken up by mindless escapism, or do I seek to improve myself?

Do you let your mind and soul feast on intellectual and spiritual junk food, or do you spend your time pursuing enrichment through personal growth and development? Which will make an impression on your life: some forgettable pulp fiction, or timeless literature? At the end of the day, will you really be a better person for having played Candy Crush and Farmville for hours on end?

We only have so much time available to us, no more and no less. Time cannot be saved or hoarded, only spent—the chief question is how: Will we spend it wisely, or squander it? If you want to leave a legacy that will last long after you’re gone, then, seek to make every minute count. Invest your time in that which is worthwhile, and make the most of it.

What’s in a Name?

Naming a website isn’t as easy as you’d think.  First off, many of the “good ones” are taken by squatters and other unscrupulous critters who hijack decent domain names for the sole purpose of holding them ransom.  (A pox on such people.  They need to get an honest job.)  Consequently, it takes a bit of ingenuity to come up with something that is available.

Additionally, there should be some sort of rhyme or reason to the domain name.  It should be memorable in some way:  intriguing, philosophical, reflective of a brand, making a statement—something.  Otherwise, just string together random letters or concatenate arbitrary words and be done with it.

As if that weren’t enough, a domain name should be euphonious.  It should trip lightly off the tongue, rather than get choked in the throat.  It should be pleasant to the ear, rather than a jarring juxtaposition of phonemes that do not play well together.  It should not be long or unwieldy.  It should steer clear of homophones and other vagaries of English orthography.

So, whence came “Nordic Solitude”?

Nordic.  I wanted the name to reflect my ethnic heritage.  I am a descendant of the Norse, or Northmen.  Although I was born and raised in America, I have had the opportunity to live for a time in the land of my forebears, which has helped to broaden my perspective.

Solitude.  With modern society’s inordinate emphasis on “community,” the concept of “solitude” is anathema.  I’m not entirely certain why this is, or why individuals who seek out solitude are generally viewed as emotionally deficient, if not defective.  I suspect it has to do with society’s tendency to conflate “being alone” with “being lonely.”  (Susan Cain’s book, Quiet:  The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, goes a long way towards validating introversion.  It provides insight regarding introverts, and therefore should be required reading for extroverts, I believe 🙂 .)

Personality aside, there is little in modern life and/or society that lends itself to quiet contemplation and reflection.  Our lives are filled with noise and distraction—from the idiot box that forms the basis for background noise at home to the iPods and smart phones that get dragged everywhere, much like a blankie or favorite toy might accompany a small child at all times, regardless of the occasion.  We are so rarely alone with our thoughts.

Solitude provides an antidote to this frenetic, switched-on, wired life.  Solitude gives us the chance to listen to what we’re hearing, watch what we’re seeing, taste what we’re eating, and notice what we’re feeling.  Solitude enables us to take a deep, cleansing breath and quiet our minds so we can ponder what we’re thinking.  Solitude is the pause that refreshes, so we are better able to connect with one another because we have been able first to connect with ourselves.

Nordic Solitude.  This phrase therefore unites these two concepts.  Norway is a land of natural beauty and rugged wilderness, with plenty of opportunity to escape the trappings of modern, civilized life.  One of the stereotypes of Norwegians is that of the cold, aloof Northerner, and perhaps there is a grain of truth to this—as the old joke goes, when asked about his vacation, the average person responds that he had a great time in part because his vacation destination was crowded and popular; in contrast, the Norwegian would respond that he had a good time because nobody else was there.  Norwegians appreciate their country, and frequently spend their free time at their cabins in the back of beyond—cabins with primitive facilities, and largely lacking modern comforts.  Of course this doesn’t necessarily imply that all Norwegians are a contemplative sort, but they are comfortable enough in their own skin that they are not afraid of solitude.  They know how to be alone without being lonely.

Hence, Nordic Solitude.